My man is not at all punctual. He's absolutely terrible at managing his time.
He says he will so something, but he never does. He tells me he is coming home at 7, but he comes home at 8:30. It doesn't happen just once or twice a year. He does it all the time.
He doesn't just do it to me. He does it to his own family and friends too.
I have told him so many times "Don't say or promise anything if you can't follow through.". Nothing has changed so far. What irritates me the most is he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong, and he never apologies. His attitude absolutely sucks.
I got so mad last night.
My car can not be driven at the moment because he's repairing it right now. (It was about 6 years ago that he told me he would fix my car by himself.)
I normally go shopping without him. But because I don't have my car right now and I don't like driving his big car, we decided to go to 24hr Tesco last night.
I was upstairs using PC at 5ish. He came upstairs and told me that we were going out at 7, and went back downstairs.
I got ready at 7 and went downstairs. He was still on the sofa watching drama on TV. I said "Aren't we going out? You said we were going at 7." He said "...not yet.....", meaning "Go away. I am watching TV.".
He finally got ready to go out 30 minutes later.
I told him "You said we were going out at 7. That's why I got ready on time at 7. I have been waiting for you for 30 minutes.".
You know what he said? He said "Good for you..." in a very patronising way.
I was so angry. He wasn't just late, he was so rude as well.
I normally go quiet when I am angry, so there was no conversations in the car.
He sensed that I was mad. He said "What is the problem? Why are you so angry?". I knew our conversation would not go anywhere. He thought I was getting angry with a very silly little thing because he did nothing wrong. I simply said "Let's not discuss about this". That was the end of our conversation.
When someone tells you that they will do something. Don't you expect them to do what they have promised to do?
If someone dislikes something that you do, wouldn't you at least try to understand why and try not to do it even though you think there is absolutely nothing wrong with it? Or you think he/she is just stupid and do nothing about it.
It's our 8th wedding anniversary tomorrow. I just don't feel like celebrating...