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What You Really Think Of Your Friends

Gina is your soulmate.

You truly love Yanqing.

You consider RuiQing your true friend.

You know that PeiLin is always thinking of you.

You'll remember Xiuxia for the rest of your life.

You secretly think Huili is creative, charming, and a bit too dramatic at times.

You secretly think that Candice is colorful, impulsive, and a total risk taker.

You secretly think that Felicia is loyal and trustworthy to you. And that Felicia changes lovers faster than underwear.

You secretly think Xuanqiu is shy and nonconfrontational. And that Xuanqiu has a hidden internet romance.

I dunno if this is really true.. hehehe.

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The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. These are just three little BUT VERY POWERFUL words!!!

I'll be there
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we're truly present for other people, important things happen to them & us.
We are renewed in love and friendship.
We are restored emotionally and spiritually.
Being there is at the very core of civility.

I miss you
Perhaps more marriages could be saved & strengthened if couples simply & sincerely say to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired & loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your work day, just to say, "I miss you."

I respect you
Respect is another way of showing love.
Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds & become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

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Maybe you're right
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions.
The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting maybe "I'm wrong". Let's face it.
When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view.
They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you.
Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please forgive me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed
if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of
us are vulnerable to faults and failures. A man should never be
ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I thank you
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness.
On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count on me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.
Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is they're indicating, "You can count on me."

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Let me help
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.
When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I understand you
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing relationship. This applies to any relationship.

Go for it
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals.
Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you.
Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only.
Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

I love you
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words "I love you."

sweet rite? true rite? hehehe...

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Rebecca, your subconscious mind is driven most by Peace

You are driven by a higher purpose than most people. You have a deeply-rooted desire to facilitate peacefulness in the world. Whether through subtle interactions with love ones, or through getting involved in social causes, it is important to you to influence the world.

You are driven by a desire to encourage others to think about the positive side of things instead of focusing on the negative. The reason your unconscious is consumed by this might stem from an innate fear of war and turmoil. Thus, to avoid that uncomfortable place for you, your unconscious seeks out the peace in your environment.

Usually, the thing that underlies this unconscious drive is a deep respect for humankind. You care about the future of the world, even beyond your own involvement in it. As a result, your personal integrity acts as a surrogate for your deeper drive toward peace and guides you in daily life towards decisions that are respectful toward yourself and others.

Though your unconscious mind is driven most strongly by Peace, there is much more to who you are at your core.

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